Build Yourself Up

Here are some subjects worth thinking about today.

Courage.  Live from the inside out.  Don’t look for blame and responsibility in the people and situations around you.  All your circumstances are created from within and manifested by your decision making.  Trust your intuition and your heart.  Have the courage and strength to follow them.  Some people choose to “go with the flow” in life.  Remember…if you “go with the flow” then you can’t be upset when you end up somewhere you don’t want to be.  You chose it.  Otherwise, you must have the courage to make decisions all day every day.  Big decisions and little decisions…they are all the same.  “Where do I want to live?” is no different than “Where do I want to eat lunch?”  Participate and think through all the decisions in your day and in your life.  The more decisions that you consciously make, the more your life is driven by purpose.  DO…just DO.  Don’t live inside your head.  Don’t let emotions or habits take over your decision making.  Get outside your comfort zone sometimes and get into it!!!!  Comfort zones can protect us and keep us safe…so can cages!  Kick the door open and get out there and start pulling the trigger.  I don’t mean jumping off cliffs…just take charge of your decision making.

Faith.  Believe in yourself.  God put his trust in you and gave you the keys to your life.  If God Himself can trust you to guide your life why can’t you?  Always be positive and optimistic.  It is easy to be positive and optimistic when things are going well.  The true rewards are reserved for those who have the strength to be positive and optimistic when the chips are down.  Believe this:  the more you believe in an outcome, the greater it’s likelihood of occurrence.  If you “assume the worst” then guess what’s going to happen?  If you are “realistic” and temper your expectations then guess what’s going to happen?  ALWAYS believe in the positive outcome.  DO NOT DOUBT YOURSELF!  The world is filled with people who are glad to doubt you, who are glad to see you fall.  Don’t be one of them!  We are magnets in life.  We attract the things we believe in the most.  It’s not enough to just wish and hope.  You have to first BELIEVE and then work hard to make it happen.

Be careful what you wish and pray for.  All prayers are answered.  If you pray for strength then you will be given an opportunity to be strong.  If you pray for wisdom then you will be given a test to learn from.  More specifically, if you pray for a relationship then you will have one.  If you pray for family or children then you will have them.  What you should pray for is love.  Pray to be loved by someone and pray to love someone.  Just be patient and hold out for someone who brings out the best in you and inspires you to bring out the best in them.  All the things you want will bloom from this.  But if you live in fear and live to avoid being alone…you will always have company.  And unfortunately bad company is ten times worse than being lonely.  If you want love…than have the courage to be alone and the strength to be patient enough for it to find you.

Self esteem.  Think of self esteem as the most important muscle in your body.  Only self esteem can carry you when pressure becomes too much to bear.  Only self esteem can lift you up over the hurdles in your path.  Like any muscle you must exercise to develop it.  Assess your self esteem daily and do specific things to make it stronger.  Don’t be negative.  Don’t beat yourself up.  Leave that to the rest of the world.  Think of only your positives.  Think only of the good things you do in life.  If there aren’t enough of those things to think about…then start creating them.  Even diet decisions can affect your self esteem.   Do SOMETHING today you can be proud of.  And then repeat that and similar things as often as possible.  Forgive yourself for the things you are not proud of and move forward.  If you drive through life looking backwards then you’re going to run into something.

“There is no need for a Plan B…it will only distract you from Plan A.”  Will Smith

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